Utah: Wife of imam tells of persistent abuse

Qur'an 4:34 Alert: he said, she said. Update on this story: "Wife of imam tells of persistent abuse: His representatives say her story is full of lies and is one-sided," by Jason Bergreen and Jessica Ravitz in The Salt Lake Tribune, with thanks to LHK:

Apparently angry with how his dinner was prepared, Imam Shuaib-ud Din on Jan. 2 punched and kicked his wife and beat her head against a freezer until the door broke, the woman alleged in a petition for a protective order.

The next day, the imam - the recently fired religious leader of the Islamic Society of Greater Salt Lake - threw a kitchen knife at her and threatened to kill her, according to a petition for a temporary protective order filed last week by Ayesha Siddiqa Din.

The order, signed by 3rd District Judge John Paul Kennedy on Jan. 16, requires that the imam not contact his wife. It also requires him to stay away from their home and that he may not take his two children out of Utah, among other restrictions.

The allegations of abuse - and the Islamic Society board's reaction to them - have sparked a schism in the Muslim community, with many members criticizing the way the board has handled the situation.

Shuaib-ud Din was not available for comment Monday. But a family representative in Chicago, where he has taken refuge, insisted that while there were marital concerns, the allegations in his wife's petition are "lies," inherently one-sided and do not tell the whole story.

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Sounds like an episode of 'Little Mosque on the Prairie". Hysterical, just like the King of Queens.

"Shuaib-ud Din was not available for comment Monday. But a family representative in Chicago, where he has taken refuge, insisted that while there were marital concerns, the allegations in his wife's petition are "lies," inherently one-sided and do not tell the whole story".

Yeah, the poor woman probably did a whole lot of terrible things, like reading a book or not wearing her shroud indoors. Or, worst sin of all, she probably told him "not tonight dear"-unforgiveable in the eyes of Illah.

Why DO we allow these 7th century savages to live among us in the 21st century? They will never attain civilization by doing so-but they will drag us all down to their primitive level.

Moslems want sharia law for us infidels but don't want them for themselves while in the land of the free.
He is oviously following sharia law and thus so should she.
How dare her go against the will of allah!
She will surely burn in the hellfire for what she has done.
And now that she is ostracized from the ummah and most likely considered apostate at best and a kuffaar at worst, who knows what the pious moral superior moslems will do to her in the name of allah.
O ye Moslems, put the smackdown on the snake oiled bitch and give her just what ole mo would do in your position.

the allegations in his wife's petition are "lies," inherently one-sided and do not tell the whole story.


Yes...she forget to tell the judge about the beating with the bat as well.

Send this lund back to Saudi. Note that he is not likely to have come from Pak....Pak is not the problem here.

nasperm, why do you continue to use kuffaar technology?
Surely you know that your prophet mo is cursing you to hellfire with every keystroke you make!
allah has special plans for you because you continue to strive against the way of allah.
I wonder what he'll do to you?, sex slave in hell is too good for you, maybe he'll make an example out of you for your redemption and just whip you for eternity.
Then maybe if you're lucky he'll just rip your spine out your back and split your brains in two and put them back and do it over and over again.
Who knows?, but i'm sure whatever allah decides to do with you, you'll be as happy as a slut at a college frat party.

Speaking of "lies", did anybody bother to check the wife's head to see what kind of damage was done? It must be pretty hard if she could destroy a freezer door with it. I think science ought to look into what makes a Muslim woman tick. I mean, if this women could break a freezer door with her head, she is one talented Muslima. But then again, we've seen amazing Muslim women before. Remember the woman who was beaten to death last year by her irate Muslim husband? (I know, you're asking, which one?) The husband claimed it was suicide. You've got to be SUPER talented to be able to beat yourself to death.

"...the allegations in his wife's petition are "lies," inherently one-sided and do not tell the whole story."

Yes, I'm sure the "whole story" that exonerates the Muslim husband was this:

She acted up, and wasn't preparing his dinner as a wife should along with other bad behaviors. So:

First, he admonished her. She persisted in being a bad wife.

Next, he refused to sleep with her (as if that would be a "punishment"!) until she would stop her unwifely behavior. But she continued to persist in her bad behavior.

Now, all bets were off and he could beat his wife (as he sees fit to interpret waidriboohunna ("scourge, beat")in Qur'an 4:34).

All this is Allah's direct, unmediated and literal Absolute Truth good for all time, given specially to all Muslims in Qur'an 4:34:

...admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them...

"The allegations of abuse - and the Islamic Society board's reaction to them - have sparked a schism in the Muslim community, with many members criticizing the way the board has handled the situation."


...Of course, they don't care about the way the husband treated the wife....The wife is but a piece of property has no value.. what's all the fuss about....

IT's serious - I know - but your comments/sarcasms, have me on the floor. This is the best site ever.

Anyone know where in Chicago area he's hiding out?

"IT's serious - I know - but your comments/sarcasms, have me on the floor. This is the best site ever".


Terrific! Proving Satan Khomeini wrong yet again-Islam is indeed quite humorous, even if for all the wrong reasons.

The wife of al din sought infidel means to resolve the domestic violence issued by this creature.

According to Atlas Shrugs this imams wife would have had a tougher time in northern CA . . .

ISLAMIC CHARITY SHAM! MUSLIM ABUSE SHELTER TAX SHELTER?

NISA [North American Islamic Shelter for the Abused] is a non-profit organization [charity] of the parent Islamic Society of North America (ISNA), established as a [fiundraising] vehicle towards alleviating issues related to abuse and domestic violence. Our mission is to help men and women achieve domestic harmony and a happy family life in the SF Bay Area

But NISA, the North American Islamic Shelter for the Abused, doesn't exist. After exhaustive investigative efforts, we find NISA is a shell. A cellphone. An 888 number that is not answered but several cell phones.The Islamic shelter for abused women (wife beating, btw, is in the Koran) has no shelter and offers no services other than referral to government shelters.

Using battered women to raise funds for what nefarious purpose? What exactly are they raising money for? In an ATLAS EXCLUSIVE, covert Atlas operative Julie blew the lid right off what appears to be a bogus Islamic charity. Julie has extensive experience in this field. Her husband is a Muslim and has written numerous books and articles exposing the jihad worldwide.

First off understand that Muslims do not believe in getting into anyone else's family business.

In Muslim households, the head of the family is the man, who is treated as a miniature god. The wife cannot hope to get to heaven unless her husband allows it. He has rights over in her, even in death (the afterlife.) The authorities, 99.9% of the time in Middle Eastern countries, turn a blind eye to any complaints a womanvoices in desperation, but they let the husband know she has complained...which brings her to more beatings...if not outright death.

Now they [NISA] have been co-fundraising with CAIR, and knowing that Islamic women do not seek help outside their families, I checked them out...

They list an 888 number for women to call. With a PO Box and that one phone line, they appear to be a worthy charity, able to collect huge amounts (from overseas??) and they now have the ability to funnel it somewhere, into buying properties, and who-knows-what, all with only a PO BOX.

This phantom Islamic abused women's shelter gives out awards (to give bogus cred to say Imam Tahir Anwar, one of the "Muslim Leader of Tomorrow");;

He speaks 5 languages fluently, and was recently the recipient of the Community Service Award from NISA (North American Islamic Shelter for the Abused). More here

I wonder what his speaking fees were, and/or what that recipient award included.

NISA has hooked up with a local church as well. Julie first emailed the Unity Church trying to actually track down how much the Church had actually given the shelter and the folks at NISA. She sought to know if the shelter were actually operating from within that Church. Since NISA's website seemed to affiliate itself with the Church, she asked the Unity Church of Palo Alto for their relationship. Here is the exchange:

Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2006 06:22:13 -0800 (PST)
From: XXXXXX
Subject: RE: NA Shelter for the Abused
To: "Michael Clemons"

Well, check Google....your church appears there as associated with this group. One of your webpages references them as well.



Unity Palo Alto Community Church. Palo Alto, CA


Sharing Abundance Recipients 2005

Sharing abundance is an important part of Unity Palo Alto Community Church’s sharing prosperity and community outreach.

Unity Palo Alto Community Church - Giving | Sharing Abundance ...

The mission of the North-American Islamic Shelter for the Abused (NISA) is to help women and men achieve domestic harmony and a happy family life in the SF ...
www.unitypaloalto.org/giving/tithe_recipients_2005.html

Unity Palo Alto Community Church - Giving | Sharing Abundance ...

Unity Palo Alto Community Church participates in community outreach, ... The mission of the North-American Islamic Shelter for the Abused (NISA) is to help ...
www.unitypaloalto.org/giving/tithe_recipients_2005.html

I checked and this group has no address other than a PO Box, and yours, and they even refer to your church on their website. http://www.ask-nisa.org/

They appear at joint fund raising events with CAIR, , and other radical muslim groups to "fundraise" for the abused muslim women. However, nowhere in the US are there any muslim shelters for abused women, and I do feel your church should inform the FBI. CALL 4-11 in our area and ask for the local office of the FBI. They would be the ones to investigate anyway.

This group, NISA,says they have a toll free hot-line, 1-888-ask-nisa but someone should call this who is an agent and speaks fluent Arabic, and this should be the FBI. I am wondering who calls this hotline, since muslim women are too afraid to speak out about their problems. My husband is a convert to Islam. I know much about the subject, since I edit his books, one of which is on the very subject of women who are abused by islam.

This so-called non-profit group seems to have no other goal than fundraising......I would think you would want to avoid notifying them, but let the FBI know, and the FBI should do all of the contact. You could interefere in something crucial to our security......if you do not simply ask the FBI to look into it.


Michael Clemons wrote:

Julie,

I do not know what to tell you as We do not have any information on the North American Islamic Shelter for the Abused.

Blessings
Michael


From: XXXXXXXX
Sent: Tuesday, December 19, 2006 2:21 AM
To: office@unitypaloalto.org
Subject: NA Shelter for the Abused


I am trying to locate the North American Islamic Shelter for the Abused. I could not find it on Google. I came to your website, but I do not see how to contact them. Please tell me if there is such a shelter, and if it located within the one existing shelter in Santa Clara County .

Thank you...If you have any contact info I would appreciate it.

Julie W. Ali
Palo Alto

Note: forwarded message attached.

Julie finally called NISA - she called for help. No one answered. Ten minutes later, she got a call from a woman who apparently called back on a cell phone. When asked about the number, the caller, Saha, said she "forgot to do the caller ID block, *67 before she called Julie." She said they always do that for "security reasons." This is understandable since muslim women would not want their husbands to know they had called a shelter. But Julie is wonering what would show up on caller ID if she got an incoming call from their 888 number....Maybe the name Sriram Gopalan? Would someone please have them return a call from their 888 number?

The cell phone number belonging to Sriram Gopalan, which "Saha" called back from each time, is (650) 930-0978..."Saha" said they only recently got cell phones. Most likely she was the designated person to take incoming calls for the hotline, and they are routinely forwarded to one or another's home phones. She said they have no shelter. No counsellors, and no advice other than to refer women to a local shelter....or to listen as a friend might. Saha said they have excellent shelters out there [government sponsored ones!!] but would not name one, when sincerely asked. The phone is registered to Sriram Gopalan. Maybe some readers already want to call and ask for him!

The phone is registered to Sriram Gopalan.

Who is Sriram Gopalan? He owns the cell phone that someone used to return my call to NISA, the North American Islamic Shelter for the Abused, a subsidiary of ISNA, the Islamic Society of North America, closely associated with CAIR.

I first learned of NISA through one of CAIR's email bulletins last Fall, about their joint fundraising efforts for an Islamic shelter for abused Muslim women. I looked to see what information was availble. The "shelter" consisted of a PO Box, at

NISA of ISNA
P.O.Box 50515
Palo Alto, CA 94303
Phone:
(650) 856-0440
1-888-ask-nisa
Fax:
(650) 856-0444
Email:
admin@ask-nisa.org

The "hotline's" hours are listed from 10 am PST to 1 pm, a time when few women likely to be being abused. The website is truly focused on donations from the public, and I do not see any accounting where this money is going. They do not say how close they are to their fundraising goals for building a shelter.

There is almost no oversight of non-profit organizations when it comes to the money they receive or spend. Their web site does not say how much they have raised so far through CAIR, etc. and the Palo Alto Unity Church donation given to them back in October, 2006. I wonder who is watching the barn.

Certainly not the FBI.

However, my initial call went unanswered, and I did not leave a message. I got a return call about ten minutes later from a woman who identified herself as "Saha." Her English was that of a native, or at least an immigrant who grew up in US schools. She claims to be Afghan. She indicated she was using one of their several cell phones to return my call...so I saw the number on my caller ID...(650) 930-0978. She indicated she should have used the *67 beforehand for "security" reasons.

Saha had no information whatsoever for my Pakistani "friend," an abused woman neighbor of mine....she took four hours to get the wrong information to me.....several emails and some phone numbers in my area of the country. None of them was viable. I called her back, and she looked on the Internet while we were on the phone, and found one local shelter to which she referred me.

I found that the registered owner of the cell phone has a number of other phones in the Bay Area, and numerous residences. My intrigue continued, as I saw that he listed his date of birth only as 1979, but claiming to be 31 years old. My calulations are he would be 27 if he were born in 1979.

I found discrepancies enough in the information I paid for, that I obtained an email for him from his Internet posts. I wondered if someone had stolen his identity. Being 28 years old would make him very wealthy if he owned all those buildings and condos I saw listed.

I saw that he was President of the Indian Cultural Society at the University of Missouri, Maryland chapter. More residences listed in and around the nation's capitol. He has numerous residences in Atlanta and other Georgia towns. He has relatives listed all over the USA...some in New Jersey.

At one point, his identity seems to shift to being 61 years old when he lived in New Jersey. Could there be several people using this ID?

He wrote Steve Forbes' blog on a Flat Tax, and claims he would support it if the Flat Tax were zero. He seemed to think zero taxes are the way to go. This is how I obtained his email address.

Now, are his residences non-profit, his cell phhones all non-profit, and his shelter non-existent? Maybe his vehicles and orther apparaysd are all considered non-profit as weel, since they can be claimed under some non-existent domestic violence shelter.

His email is " Sriram Gopalan"
sriramgopalan@gmail.com

The gal who called me said they hope to have an Islamic Shelter next year. I can only imagine how big that building will be and for what it will actually be used.

Speaking of "lies", did anybody bother to check the wife's head to see what kind of damage was done? It must be pretty hard if she could destroy a freezer door with it.

Posted by: Isabellathecrusader at January 24, 2007 12:11 PM

She must be a devout Muslim-those skulls have to be pretty thick for logic being unable to penetrate them. I figure the more devout the Muslim, the thicker the skull. Illah built his minions perfectly in order to resist sanity-he gave them a small brain for a target and encased it in those skulls as an extra precaution.

"The protective order was never served on Shuaib-ud Din, despite two attempts by the Salt Lake County Sheriff's Office."

Does this mean he can come back and cause further damage and possibly take the kids because the protective order wasn't actually served?

"Speaking of "lies", did anybody bother to check the wife's head to see what kind of damage was done? It must be pretty hard if she could destroy a freezer door with it. I think science ought to look into what makes a Muslim woman tick. "

people people

remember that the muslim women are born with half a brain!!!

Thickness is not an issue, it's quantity of intelligence the problem.

Look at nasperm for references.

Aw, now somebody at the Salt Lake Tribune is gonna be shot to death, and have a knife plunged into his heart to affix an pro-Islam screed affixed to his chest.

Where is CAIR?

If Mrs. Din survives her divorce, it will be interesting to see what direction her life takes, post-Iman Din. Will she melt back into the Muslim community somewhere, or will she take off her burqa, burn her Quran, and join life in 21st century USA? If she takes the second path, could she or would she write a tell-all book about life in the "Muslim community" totally separate and hostile from the larger American city in which she lived. It would be an interesting book; but I have little hope that she will take that route.

i>Polygamy should be legal, demands imam of Milan.

Boy, these Islamic scholars sure are dumb. If polygamy is legalized, how're the Moslems gonna continue outbreeding us Infidels and take over the world?

Whoops, I'm the one being dumb here. I forgot that Moslems don't have to work for a living, they get to stay home and cash several gubmint checks every month.

Me, because I work my ass off and make good money and have blue eyes, I pay high taxes and don't qualify for the welfare and couldn't afford another wife even if it were legalized.

:^(

Shuab ub-Din no doubt blamed the Infidel for all his woes. But without those Infidels living in a state of permanent fright as they would in a nice Muslim-dominated land, what's a poor infuriated Muslim to do? His wife was right there. And she's a woman, and that makes her lower down on the phylogenetic scale, though not of course as low as all Infidels. So, faute de mieux, he let her have it.

And perhaps there were extenuating circumstances. Perhaps she had just announced that she wanted to be known amoong Infidels by a real American name -- and had chosen "Beth."

What! No Toothpick!

What happened to the beat your wife with toothpicks! So now its freezer doors! Just when I was getting my toothpick skills down too!!!

How the hell do I convert to this faith if they keep changing the rules!

"threw a kitchen knife at her and threatened to kill her"

Islamic Ninjas? Bad aim?

I get it now...thats why muslim women dress with all extra clothing. Its body armour for all the assorted toothpicks, freezer doors and knives that are part of marriage life.

"...the allegations in his wife's petition are "lies," inherently one-sided and do not tell the whole story."

She sort of did lie. Breaking the freezer door with your wife's head is NOT abuse according to Islam; it's Islamic law.

The whole story? She deserves to die for damaging his property: Her head and his freezer.

dennisw.

He looks like someone who could kill if he didn't get his food fast enough. Odd though, that he would harm the freezer.

Photo of the liver lipped mutant Imam wife beater --->>>


http://www.sltrib.com/portlet/article/html/render_gallery.jsp?articleId=5051135&siteId=297&startImage=1
Posted by: dennisw


NOW THAT'S *GROSS*!!!

We really should not mock this poor woman. She was no doubt raised on the Islamic view of women, with which we are all familiar. Accustomed to being on the receiving end of all manner of theological abuse, restrictions and violence from an early age, how could she know how to react to her evil husband? Only when her very life was in danger did she seek protection. Even so, her whole community will probably turn their backs on her, and she is probably not educated or equipped to survive in the modern world.

If anything, those of us who oppose the tyrrany of Sharia should at least make a kind mention of her rather than making fun. What she, and millions of women like her need, is a place to run to where her abusive but oh-so-good Muslim husband can't get her. She needs the law to come down on him like a ton of bricks. A woman who has suffered at the hands of Sharia might actually make it out of this hateful cult. That means her and her children might escape, and serve as an example to other women imprisoned in Islam, even here in the west.

"But then again, we've seen amazing Muslin women before."-Isabellathecrusader

Those women who tore corpses(and near corpses) to shreds during the Algerian uprising against the French come to mind.

Quijybo,

Your heart's in the right place .. and. fortunately, so are our laws. Speaking only for my laughter .. I'm not taking any back ... it's such a relief to laugh at this stuff sometimes; it actaully increases my commitment to freedom.

"The order, signed by 3rd District Judge John Paul Kennedy on Jan. 16, requires that the imam not contact his wife. It also requires him to stay away from their home and that he may not take his two children out of Utah, among other restrictions."

Then this: "The allegations of abuse - and the Islamic Society board's reaction to them - have sparked a schism in the Muslim community, with many members criticizing the way the board has handled the situation."

The schism could prove to be a good thing (depending upon why it's happening) She will certainly be shunned by many in her community .. and she has choices. If she chooses wisely, she can claim freedom as her own .. she does live in a free country now .. even if she does not practice a religion that values freedom.

Quijybo,

We're not mocking her. We're so fed up and frustrated with the lack of sense on this subject, where Islam's practices are alien to our way of life and yet where we are having it shoved down our throats more and more. Everyone knows that in America women don't have to stay and take it, that there are places to go and people to help abused women. I worry about the restraining order for this woman though. It seems so many women with abusive husbands who get restraining orders against them end up dead. The fact that this woman has stood up to not only her husband but the whole Islamic establishment and made them look stupid in the eyes of average Americans does not bode well for her survival. And the fact that she's more than likely been brainwashed into thinking that Islam is great and that she has to stay in it is a third strike against her.

I am getting a chuckle though, out of the picture in my mind of the imam hiking up his skirt and high-tailing it out of town to Chicago. Oh how brave and courageous are Muslim men, without their swords, knives and little band of thugs to back them up.

Quijybo

Thankfully, this place is a lot more civilized than the comments section on Little Green Footballs. You want to see mocking, then pay a visit to the douches at LGF. No offense to JWers who also post at LGF.