Muhammad said: “If a husband calls his wife to his bed [i.e. to have sexual relation] and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her till morning” (Bukhari 4.54.460).
He also said: “By him in Whose Hand lies my life, a woman can not carry out the right of her Lord, till she carries out the right of her husband. And if he asks her to surrender herself [to him for sexual intercourse] she should not refuse him even if she is on a camel’s saddle” (Ibn Majah 1854).
And what does one do with disobedient women? “Men are the managers of the affairs of women for that God has preferred in bounty one of them over another, and for that they have expended of their property. Righteous women are therefore obedient, guarding the secret for God’s guarding. And those you fear may be rebellious admonish; banish them to their couches, and beat them.” (Qur’an 4:34)
“Nigeria: Kaduna Police Hunt for Husband Who Macheted Wife,” by Juliet Oyoyo, Daily Independent via AllAfrica.com, December 2, 2014 (thanks to The Religion of Peace):
Kaduna — Kaduna State Police Command has declared one Musa Rabiu wanted.
He was said to have inflicted severe machete cuts on his wife, Ramatu Ibrahim, over allegation of depriving him sex.
The middle-aged woman, who is still in coma, was reported to be presently receiving treatment at a private hospital on Rabah Road, Kaduna North Local Government area as a result of injuries she sustained.
According to investigations by Daily Independent, Ramatu Ibrahim’s husband had called her under the pretense that he wanted to see her so they could reconcile their differences for the sake of their marriage.
He was said to have asked her to meet him at their former house located at Layin Masalachin Bugaje in Malali, where he is the gate man.
Ramatu revealed: “since I was not suspecting any foul play, I went there the next day as agreed by 10.00 a.m.
“When I got there, he started talking to me on how he intends to bring me back to the house as his wife.
“What spoiled the whole thing was that at about 12.30 p.m., after we had finished discussion and I have agreed to go back, he said we should go into the room and catch fun like husband and wife.
“I refused outrightly and told him that he has to go to my people in Mararaban Jos and intimate them on the new development before that could happen; I guess that made him angry.
“The next thing I saw, he removed his clothes, that he wanted to have his bath. But unknown to me, he went in to get a machete and before I knew what was happening, he started inflicting cuts all over my body.
“I could not do anything but to pray to Allah because He knows and sees everything.
“When he was done inflicting machete cuts me, he put his clothes on, locked me in the house and left the premises.
“It was by God’s grace I managed to drag myself out of the house to the gate where I tried to call the attention of passers-by who later alerted the proper authorities and I was brought to the hospital,” Ramatu said.
She said during the 10 months that their marriage lasted, “Musa had been very wicked to me”.
“I never visited my relations, as anytime I asked him to go home and see my family, he refuses, even the day my junior sister came to visit us, he was very unhappy about it and he even asked me if I told her what was happening between the two of us and I said no,” Ramatu narrated.
According to her, the matter was reported to the police who have launched a manhunt for the husband who is said to be at large.
Salah says
“And if he asks her to surrender herself [to him for sexual intercourse] she should not refuse him even if she is on a camel’s saddle” (Ibn Majah 1854).”
…even if she is…menstruating!!!
http://crossmuslims.blogspot.ca/2010/04/muhammad-and-menses-mahomet-et-les.html
zebo says
A muslim is allowed to have 4 women.
therefore no surprise that he is allowed to force a women to have sex with him?
Every 4 days.
AM says
This incident is not necessarily related to Islam, there is a lot of violence in Africa anyways. Even here in South Africa people frequently get hacked with machetes in non-Islam related violence.
gravenimage says
So you don’t believe that is it salient that in Islam a woman is not allowed to refuse sex with her husband, nor that a Muslim man may physically attack his wife if she is disobedient? Right…
Never mind that Muslims commit over 90% of the world’s Honor Killings.
Zebo says
do you have some links or statistics?
It would be interessting to know how many victims there are and how the ratios(muslim/christians/etc)
are.
Just like female circumcision such crimes are not related to just one specific group.
But even in female circumcisison(which is not mandatory in islam) the muslim are the one who do it mostly.
mortimer says
In 2000, the United Nations estimated that there are 5,000 honor killings every year. That number might be reasonable for Pakistan alone, but worldwide the numbers are much greater. In 2002 and again in 2004, the U.N. brought a resolution to end honor killings and other honor-related crimes.
http://www.meforum.org/2646/worldwide-trends-in-honor-killings
Muslim countries don’t keep good statistics (or any) about crimes against women. Honor murders are sometimes called ‘suicides’. The number of honor killings are probably at least 10,000 worldwide.
mortimer says
Quote from study: ” honor killings, both worldwide and in the West, are mainly Muslim-on-Muslim crimes. In this study, WORLDWIDE, 91 PERCENT OF PERPETRATORS WERE MUSLIMS. In North America, most killers (84 percent) were Muslims, with only a few Sikhs and even fewer Hindus perpetrating honor killings; in Europe, Muslims comprised an even larger majority at 96 percent while Sikhs were a tiny percentage. In Muslim countries, obviously almost all the perpetrators were Muslims.”
joey says
You’re right in the U.S. we have el salvidorian gang bangers who do that too. We also have Mexican smugglers who beheaded children cuz their parents did pay up. Gotta love DC and Baltimore. They are only 45 min drive from each other.
Jaladhi says
Islam converts human beings into monsters!! Its happening everyday all over the world!!
Champ says
Muhammad said: “If a husband calls his wife to his bed [i.e. to have sexual relation] and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her till morning” (Bukhari 4.54.460).
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Juxtapose this wrongheaded view with what the Bible teaches a husband …
“Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.” — Ephesians 5:25-28
“Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.” — 1 Peter 3:7
“Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.” — Colossians 3:19
Kathy Brown, Esq. says
Oh Champ: What a beautiful, beautiful post. God reward you for it!
Footnote: Have you SEEN these Muslim men? Dirty…filthy…unshaven…stinking…? Lord have mercy!
If I were married to one (God forbid)? I’d be a quadruple amputee. But then: I’d prefer that, to EVER having sex with one.
Ooooohhhhhh. Gives me the shakes. Just to think about it.
Champ says
Thank you, dear Kathy! Oh I know, being married to a muslim man is an unimaginable horror ..eww!!
krunal parekh says
please,help the non christian communities by preaching the love and word of God i.e JESUS CHRIST,….THE BEST WAY IS THAT TO PRACTICE WHAT WAS DONE IN BOOK OF ACT …BELIEVERS AS VOLUNTEERS SPREAD ALL OVER THE WORLD PREACHING THE GOOD NEWS….
AND WE HAVE TO PRACTICES THE APOSTLES ACT I.E DAILY AND HOURLY PRAYERS IN GROUP ….MAY HOLY SPIRIT GUIDE US AND BLESS US…SO DEAR BROTHER AND SISTERS PLEASE PRAY AND REMEMBER US IN YOUR PRAYERS…LET US BE CONNECTED SPIRITUALLY TO ONE ANOTHER …..HAIL TO ST.MOTHER MARRY……………….
Kathy Brown, Esq. says
My dear friend, be assured of our prayers for you! Indeed I pray every day, asking our Blessed Mother to intercede before her Divine Son, to protect all Catholics/Christians/Jews from the demonic Muslim hordes…
And I pray, too, that those who worship satan (‘allah’) and his evil friend, Mohammed, will be converted and saved.
Mary keep you dear Sir!